A provocative opinion piece explores themes of desire, power, gender dynamics and the psychological complexities of human relationships.
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From this topic Societal Scales verily believes the masculine mind is running wild with imagination.


If that great psychologist, Sigmund Freud’s holding is anything to go by, that in every eight seconds, Solomon’s brothers are ever thinking about sex, the above captioned words are apt to provoke men.

You see this homo sapiens with an added leg will so much get excited of a woman flashing a bit of her flesh, especially if they desire that character or is quite a favourable spectacle in their eyes.

If a man were to tell a woman to sit properly in an open space, he is talking to matters of her morality lest she is seen as umuntfu longatiphatsi kahle. Knowing the weakness of men towards a woman’s nakedness, even small girls have been sternly warned to parade in their midst appropriately adorned.

That said, if some other men were to tell a grown-up woman, naked and in bed, to sit properly, that talks to him wanting both of them to indulge in pleasure.

Should she consent, all men have lost control and ultimately discipline when indulging in the nakedness of a woman. Scales holds the notion, therefore, that a woman is most dangerous – to a man – when she is naked.

Nothing kills a woman’s ego and confidence if a particular guy, especially one she fancies, is not impressed by her body – even if she were to strip up to the last stitch of her clothing. The rejection can send her to rafters, hanging herself in shame.

This is because she would have lost her sharpest weapon to control, punish and sanction a man, physically, emotionally, and even financially.

The greatest of masculine personalities have been floored in power, dignity and control, once a particular woman has come unto their bed bare and melting for their touch.

Those in social media platforms have it that a woman, who has upset her husband ain’t going to apologise. Rather, she will wait for bedtime and come unto bed naked.

Believe Scales, they say, it shall be the man who will do the apologising and not the purported female offender, his wife or girlfriend.

Isn’t that dangerous on its own? Once a woman is naked and she appeals to the guy’s sexual desire, she can make him do anything and everything against his will.

The same measure of her anger can be imagined if with all his will, he still cannot get his Added Member infuriated enough to give the woman the joys she would desire.

Mfafabuli Khumalo had been alone in the house for three weeks when his wife, LaMagagula had travelled on work. Men being whom they are, yacala yakhwabitsa indvodza here at there, emabele tiwadla emini simply because Madam was shores away.

When she finally came back, it was a few days than expected and the guy was not in the house, assumedly at work.

The woman had all the time to prepare herself for the night, took a bath, sprayed all the deodorants she could and left the bedroom door unlocked and she strategically placed herself on bed – naked.

The husband coming back was baffled by the sight, beautiful as it was, he had neither stamina nor appetite for the honeypot laid bare. That was the worst quarrel he ever had with his wife.

He was interrogated and compelled to make a rundown of his activities in the last three weeks.

Once your wife gets naked for you in your very marital bedroom and she goes to lock the door, she is most dangerous when you are not going to meet her sexual ambers for the day.

Should that become a norm, you shall be terrified each time she drops a piece of clothing ngoba ute lentfo layifunako noma asakhangise kangaka.

A woman’s naked body adjacent to you does not in any way spell her consent to have sex with you no matter what relations you have with her.

Lots of men have been charged for rape, abuse, and harassment for assuming that njengoba asahlubulile sewuvumile.

There is hardly any way any man can prove in any court of law kutsi wavuma lomlobokati kutsi atibulalane emshudvweni wemcamelo.

The danger then lies in your lack of discernment that she was not naked for your indulgence.

Any man, who has had carnal knowledge of a woman can potentially be accused of taking advantage of her, at any given time.

Two guys were sharing accommodation in a far-flung rural school.

One of them, Mr Dladla, had his girlfriend visiting for a few days sleepover.

It was clear to all and sundry that the woman got interested in the roommate teacher.

Then she was of the notion of parading in-between the bathroom and her boyfriend’s bedroom provocatively half naked.

This day the roommate came to the house and found her on the sofa naked. What followed was spontaneous intimacy without clear agreement.

The situation escalated when the boyfriend walked in, leading to accusations that resulted in legal consequences for the teacher.

Women are most dangerous when they are naked.

Msosombane kwasekulijaha implela lapha kaMsongelwa Sibiya and the last of four sons. His brother had been in the mines for some time, yet he was married and his young wife was in the yard.

She shocked everyone this one morning when she dared out of her house njengentfombi, exposing herself while hanging washed clothes.

The reactions from onlookers reflected both warning and temptation, highlighting the risks tied to such situations.

A naked woman can be a cauldron of litigation because she could be someone else’s wife and excited by her body you throw caution to the winds and sleep with her.

Even if she were not necessarily somebody’s wife, once a man succumbs to a naked woman, he lets go of control to consider repercussion from such an indulgence.

This could be unwanted and planned pregnancy.

You may give or acquire disease from such an indulgence.

Spontaneously, for a few minutes even, men have signed their lives to the devil and have their fate changed close to, on top of or inside a naked woman.

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